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Monday, July 28, 2008
Well, now I don't know what to think.
This morning I had a miscarriage. I'm no longer pregnant.
I know I've already talked to you on the phone about this, but I just wanted to tell you again how sorry I am this happened. You have a great attitude, but it really is a loss, and if you need to mourn it, do. It was very difficult for me, when it happened to me exactly one year ago.
I am so sorry! I can't imagine how hard this must be, I know everyone will say this but I really would like to help. Please let us all know what would help right now.
I'm doing ok at the moment. Dont' know if it's shock... or that somethign felt "off" with the pregnancy from the start. It just bering up a lot of things I never had reason to ponder before.
you know, what it all means and what was I supposed to learn from it. Those types of things.
You guys are great. I'll let you know if I think of anyting I need that you can help with :)
April, I am so sorry. I truly know how you feel, shocked, sad, worried. I'm not sure what there is to learn from it. I still get sad sometimes. In fact I would almost be in my 8th month right now. So don't worry if you have those thoughts because I think losing a baby is something that never leaves you. It does make you especially grateful for the children you have, though.
I hope things are going a little better for you now. And that you know that I'm here if you need anything! Let me know if I can take your kids for the afternoon sometime, so you can have some down time! Good luck!
So sorry to hear that. I know what you mean. I went through that stage when I didn't know what to think about it. I wasn't entirely thrilled about being pregnant at first and then when I miscarried I felt really guilty. I ended up pregnant with Connor not too long after. I hope you're doing o.k.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I had 4 kids under 4 when I had a second trimester miscarriage. My VT actually told me that I should be happy about it because I had too much too handle as it was. Yeah. That was some crappy commentary.
It's never an easy thing even if the pregnancy was an unplanned surprise. Hope you'll get through this okay and recuperate fully.
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April, I am so sorry! Please let me know if there is anything that I can do to help out!
I know I've already talked to you on the phone about this, but I just wanted to tell you again how sorry I am this happened. You have a great attitude, but it really is a loss, and if you need to mourn it, do. It was very difficult for me, when it happened to me exactly one year ago.
I am so sorry! I can't imagine how hard this must be, I know everyone will say this but I really would like to help. Please let us all know what would help right now.
I'm doing ok at the moment. Dont' know if it's shock... or that somethign felt "off" with the pregnancy from the start. It just bering up a lot of things I never had reason to ponder before.
you know, what it all means and what was I supposed to learn from it. Those types of things.
You guys are great. I'll let you know if I think of anyting I need that you can help with :)
Oh April, I am so sorry! You will definitely be in my prayers. Please keep me posted.
April, I am so sorry. I truly know how you feel, shocked, sad, worried. I'm not sure what there is to learn from it. I still get sad sometimes. In fact I would almost be in my 8th month right now. So don't worry if you have those thoughts because I think losing a baby is something that never leaves you. It does make you especially grateful for the children you have, though.
You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love you
...thinking of you...
I know that there is nothing I can say to make it better so I will just tell you that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry! I am thinking of you and hope you are okay.
April, I'm so sorry. I find myself wanting to say what everyone else did...I am so glad you are such a strong woman. You are in my prayers as well.
April! I am so sorry! I am thinking of you, and you are in my prayers!
April, you rock, end of story. You know where to find me if/when the hormones kick in.
I hope things are going a little better for you now. And that you know that I'm here if you need anything! Let me know if I can take your kids for the afternoon sometime, so you can have some down time! Good luck!
April,
I'm so sorry. I know that is a difficult experience. I hope that you are feeling o.k. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers as well.
So sorry to hear that. I know what you mean. I went through that stage when I didn't know what to think about it. I wasn't entirely thrilled about being pregnant at first and then when I miscarried I felt really guilty. I ended up pregnant with Connor not too long after.
I hope you're doing o.k.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I had 4 kids under 4 when I had a second trimester miscarriage. My VT actually told me that I should be happy about it because I had too much too handle as it was. Yeah. That was some crappy commentary.
It's never an easy thing even if the pregnancy was an unplanned surprise. Hope you'll get through this okay and recuperate fully.
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