And by the way if your not single and do not find yourself in Cordy's position... this one's NOT for YOU! :) I (like
Sue) would TOTALLY adopt her if possible! But you can read anyways if you want to... then back me up with
LOADS of
POSITIVE COMMENTS for Cordy!!! Cause those feel really good to receive, and besides, they're fun to hand out too.
Here is my
Glorified comment for
Cordy:
Back in the day when I was still single I remember having huge crushes on guys and NEVER telling them. Never. Because of the fear that I would be devastated by their reaction.
I look back now and
wish I would have told some of them. Why is it the
guy needs to be the one to make that move? .... anywho.....There were only ever two times I let a guy know I liked them in all my single years. Though if any of them had
half a brain they would have seen it
bright as day. Both of the times I let the guy know (either through major flirting, or just telling them ...
talk about scary and putting yourself out there emotionally!) Good things ensued. One of the boys ended up a boyfriend, the other ended up my husband.
Can I say I'm SO GLAD I didn't let fear keep me away from my hubby. I can't imagine the world without him. I would have been
devastated to have watched him, fallen in love with him, and then watched someone else walk away with him in the end.
Believe me, I understand the fear of putting yourself out there emotionally. It's a major fear I still have. In fact, I don't have many
truly close friends because of my fear of letting people be really close to me. But the good friends I do have, I know they would drop just about anything if I needed help, and I would do the same for them.
I know what it's like to hurt so bad you just want to lay in bed all day and cry.
So, in summation......
PLEEEEEASE tell him!, or at
least his mom. If you want any chance in heck at least do that! .... She knows anyways, even if you did give her the "I'm seeing someone" line. it probably confused her.... but
give the lady some credit :) She knows her son better than anyone in the world... she has literally known him his
whole life. She wouldn't hurt you by telling him (besides, she would have to admit she was meddling in his love life... ), though she may drop hints to get him to WAKE UP. She likes you more than the alternative.
Please, save his poor mom from his current girlfriend. She likes YOU better. And save yourself from forever
regretting not saying anything. At least by telling him you wouldn't be wondering for the rest of your life "What if...." or "If only I'd ....". In my opinion (and that is all this is) regret for inaction is worse than anything that could happen (cause lets face it, he's a decent guy and would never intentionally hurt you).
P.S. Being single is so hard. My heart aches for you, if you need to pray about it, then do. But I think you already know what you need to do, whether it be starting a fantastic new life or finally being able to move on. Good luck sweety.